I am a Top!

... well not really.

While not intimately a D/s or M/s relationship piece, often times we do incorporate different styles of BDSM into our play. Not surprising, I typically find that I enjoy being the bottom of most of this type of play.

This weekend we went to a semi-local (not really) BDSM event. There were several classes and plenty of dungeon time in which we could watch other kinky people performing their arts.

One of the classes I attended was a fabulous class on temporary branding with a Violet Wand. I was so excited for this class - you might remember that a Violet Wand is on my wish list. I went totally with the mindset that I wanted to possibly be branded with one. I came out realizing I totally want to do that to people. I want to do short term (6-18 mos) branding.

I am all kinds of excited. Master is kind of excited to as he has never really seen me this amped up over the idea of topping a scene like that.

A Wishlist....

I love making wishlists. They are fun to see what you want, as well as what you have wanted in the past.

So here is some of my current wishlist..


I love this idea of a bed. It has everything a slave could want or need in a bed. There are several attachment points and a beautiful cage underneath.


















Years ago I had the priviledge of being introduced to the violet wand. Yes, it was before my Master and I actually moved into the M/s relationship. We were hanging out at with some friends we had before a swinger party and he pulled this out. I INSTANTLY fell in love with it. Too bad they are so expensive!







What dungeon... ummmm... room would be complete without a St Andrews Cross? There have been many I have seen that I really like. I think my favorite is a combination cross/bondage table. I am a big fan that things like this should have an aesthetically pleasing air about them.





And what girl doesn't want a Sybian....


I love hearing what other toys people love...