Most everybody has seen the spreadsheet that a husband sent to his wife about their lack of sex.
There is much debate about who is right and wrong and what is the problem. You are probably wondering "What does this have to do with a Master/slave relationship"?
In (most) M/s relationships, this would never happen. There are a couple reasons for this.
1- From the "M" side of a relationship if s/he wants sex. They have sex. There is none of this bologna and excuses to why the don't want to. They say... slave does - hopefully happy to be of use to their Master.
2 - From the "s" side of the relationship they want to please their Master (Mistress), so they don't make excuses. If there is an actual problem, they should be addressing it whatever protocol manner they have established for communicating (and I am fairly sure that this passive aggressive manner would be unacceptable in most situations)
3 - M/s (D/s) intimate relationships seem to actually accept that sex is an important part of a relationship. This excludes those relationships that are not intentionally non-sexual. I have never met a M/s couple - regardless of how long they have been together, regardless of how old they are - that doesn't have sex on a regular basis. I do accept that this is anecdotal evidence, but something to take note of.
It actually boils down to communication. To have a successful M/s relationship honest clear communication is necessary. It seems as if theirs broke down a long time ago.
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